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Some guidelines for Valentine's Day

Wed, 14 Feb 2007 13:34:33 GMT

Your lovely lady deserves something special for Valentine's Day. I am pretty sure you have already bought either a playful kitten, chocolates or an electronic sex toy... The gift is ready to surprise! But did you prepare the scenario for the whole 14th February day? Have you already set the strategy for your further actions? Let's think about this and awake our imagination:
Remember your first date
Be nostalgic about your first date with your girlfriend. Reenact those deep feelings and sensible moments when you allured, kissed, made love with her. Women go gaga for those men who remember details from the past.

Get massage together
Although you are able to make her a great full-body massage, reserve a double massage for you. Enjoy some spa together. Valentine's Day is perfect for mutual relaxation. By the way, do not forget to get some aphrodisiacs and essential oils from the sex toys store nearby.
Rose petals pathway
Make a path of fresh petals or scented potpourri from the entrance of the apartment to the bedroom. Leave a gift for your girlfriend on the bed. You will be amazed with her curious face and deep breathing when she follows the path and finds her favorite sex toy or a jolly kitten.
Have sex in public places
Perform the act on risky territories. This will be a great adventure for both of you. And it will remind you of the 14th February 2007.
Rent a room in a hotel
There is something funny about pretending that you are tourists on a honeymoon. This “love journey” will make you more passionate and excited. Get some chocolate, champagne and enter in a bubbly jacuzzi. Play games, use blindfolders, erotic dices and sex toys... Make yourselves comfortable.
Plan a getaway
If you have enough leisure time and if your budget and work allow it, make a three-day vacation getaway. You could choose a spa or a ski resort. Some wild actions in the air will freshen your relationship.
Dress up
Dress up and go to a restaurant or just have a romantic dinner at home. By dressing up you will create a great atmosphere for this special occasion.

Make her a proposal
If you think this is a high time, if you are tired of being single and if ... well, when “I” is no longer the ruler and “WE” seems more attractive to you... Then maybe is the case when you should propose her...
Think about. I hope you've picked up some fresh ideas of what to do with your partner on Valentine's Day. You could modify or mix them. The most important is to make your woman feel gorgeous and special on Valentine's Day. Hope you will be at your best!
Happy Valentine's Day!

Grafenberg did a real discovery!

Thu, 25 Jan 2007 15:12:54 GMT

Many decades ago the female sexual pleasure and orgasm were considered to stem only from a minuscule organ known as clitoris. But in 1950 a famous physician Dr. Ernst Grafenberg found an even more enigmatic pleasure spot within women's vagina. Lately this amazing source of the female's sexual satisfaction was called the “G-spot” area. Females' orgasm, ejaculation, sexual satisfaction depend mainly on this mysterious area. In a brief space of time it became the most explorable place of woman body.

G-spot is located circa one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front wall of vagina. The bean-shaped spot feels rougher to the touch, if compared to the surrounding tissue. If the woman is sexually aroused you can easily find the spot by inserting the index or the middle finger inside her vagina. Then you slide your fingertip along the top of vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the entire surface. By locating and touching the G-spot you make the woman react promptly with pleasure and surprise.

It is known that not all women are G-spot sensitive. Some women simply suffer from discomfort when massaging the rough tissue. That is why men shouldn't be upset and disappointed in the case they can't get woman's special reaction. Sometimes men need to use another hand or a clitoral sex toy in order to caress woman's genitals and double her passion. Several guys use to stimulate the G-spot with various sex toys and lubricants. For instance, a curved and hard dildo is perfect for the G-spot stimulation. But if your penis has a natural upward bend, it can explore that zone with no barriers. There is a special G-spot vibrator that is a sex toy designed specifically for stimulating the front wall of vagina.

Women can intensify their ability to attain G-spots orgasms by training and contracting their pelvic muscles. Also there are certain sexual positions, individuals could use in order to stimulate the G-spot. For example, the missionary, “woman on top”, doggy style positions are perfect for achieving this contact.

Men should be aware of the existence of this rough spot within a woman's vagina and should be capable to stimulate it through the all above -mentioned ways. If talking about women, they should be more flexible and patient regarding man's desire to spoil their G-spot and at the same time help them find, caress and play with it.

The G-spot is a hot zone that offers women the possibility to ejaculate and reach intense pelvic orgasm or even multiple orgasms. A skillful phallus, an obedient G-spot sex toy and the woman's desire can truly satisfy both partners, thus, allowing to relish their jiggly sex.

Mon, 15 Jan 2007 07:49:35 GMT

Should Lesbians Worry about Safer Sex?

I really cannot understand why when speaking about safer sex only heterosexual people and gays are meant. Don't lesbians risk? Cannot they get an STD? They really can, but this problem is rarely discussed.

Many lesbians practice tribadism. This is rubbing the external genitalia against each other for achieving clitoral orgasm. Of course, you understand that thus vaginal fluids get into contact and transmission of an infection is more than possible.

Lesbians do practice oral sex and it is known that various STDs can be transmitted through oral sex Actually contact of the tongue with the clitoris is not very dangerous, but the risk considerably increases when the mouth gets in contact with vaginal fluids, especially during the period.. Thus a lesbian can get an infection, for example syphilis unless some protective measures are taken, for example covering the genitalia with a piece of latex napkin which can be easily made of a condom.

There is one more danger - use of sex toys. Actually, such female sex toys as nipple stimulators do not presents any risk, but insertable sex toys, like dildos and vibrators do present danger if shared. Yeah, many lesbians share sex toys without thinking that this way they can transmit infections. This problem can be easily solved by using a condom on a dildo or a vibrator, but for some reasons lesbians rarely do that.

The same concerns anal sex toys. Lesbians, like heterosexual women love playing with anal sex toys: butt plugs, anal vibrators, anal beads and again they often share these sex toys and do not think that thus they share infections. As well lesbians make one more mistake: they often use the same sex toy for vaginal and anal penetration. Thus they transmit infections from the anus to the vagina!

You see that lesbians really should worry about safer sex. Sex must be safe between persons of any gender!

Where to store your sex toys

Wed, 20 Dec 2006 10:16:39 GMT

Where to store your sex toys

Many people face a problem after buying a sex toy as they do not know where to store them. This might not be a problem for you if you are living alone and never invite anyone. Of course in this case you can even have your vibrators on the floor
and leave your sex toys exactly where you enjoyed masturbation.

All other people do wonder where they can put their sex toys to be stored while not being used. I have some tips concerning this matter.

You can put your sex toy in a locking nightstand. This is a very good idea, thus your children will not find your sex devices and will not ask you what these items are designed for. You will laugh, but there was a situation like this in my childhood. Once I nosed into my parent's nightstand and found there a very strange device. It looked like quite long and thick orange rounded stick. Of course, now I understand this was a dildo, but at than time I wondered what it was.

I asked my mother what she needed this strange device for. Naturally, she did not begin telling me about sex toys, sexual enjoyment, erogenous zones and all this kind of stuff. She murmured something and turned red. After that I never found a sex toy in this nightstand.

The conclusion is very simple - buy a locking nightstand, never forget to lock it and always have keys with you. Otherwise your passionate lovemaking can become much duller than you expected. Or are you going to stop foreplay and look for the key together with your partner?

Another way to store your sex toys is to put them into a shoe box. Shoe boxes look quite decently and do not arouse any suspicions. Besides, size of most sex toys suits shoe boxes quite well, of course, unless you are a huge sex toys admirer.

You can put these boxes in a drawer or under the bed, but always make sure you are going to make love exactly on the bed your sex toys are hidden under. Otherwise you will have to stop foreplay, go across the room (or even leave it) to take out your sex toy and to unpack it. Wherever you store sex toys, put them near the bed in advance! Perhaps you had better always store them near the bed - who knows at what moment you will feel like making love….